Better Demos, Bigger Deals

State
of
Demo
2026

What hundreds of software demos reveal about why most teams leave revenue on the table. And what the best performers do differently.

Where most demos go wrong in 2026
Missing customer context
Critical
No commercial next steps
Critical
Poor engagement
High
Poor usage of first 10 minutes
High
Weak language and fillers
Medium
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The numbers tell you exactly
where demos fail.

Metric Example Poor Demo Average Demo Top Demo
References to customer challenges "Earlier, you mentioned..." 0x 1.7x 4.5x
Explicit value explanations "For your team, this means..." 0.3x 2.4x 8x
Meaningless questions asked "Does that make sense?" 7 3.4 0.3
Customer talk ratio Customer speaking <15% 20–25% >30%
Time before demo starts Company overview, intros... 21 min 12 min 3 min
Time before customer speaks First customer contribution 10 min 4 min <2 min
Hedging phrases per session "Hopefully", "Maybe", "I think" 4.5 3.4 0.9
Filler words per session "Kind of", "Sort of", "Just" 58 20 12
Defined next step before demo ends "Let's schedule the next meeting" 0% 29% 93%

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62 /100
Needs Improvement · −8 vs top teams
Demo Opening
72
Discovery & Understanding
41
Customer Engagement
55
Communication Style
78
Relevance & Personalization
48
Value Communication
56
Demo Flow & Storytelling
61
Next Steps & Progression
22
Key Numbers From the Data
1.7×
Average Context Bridges per demo, phrases that connect what is shown to something the customer said
93%
of demos were missing a structured closing, a commercial progression discussion, or a clear next step
88%
of demos where the presenter acknowledged a buying signal from the customer, then immediately moved on
119
Uses of "kind of" in one demo session. The record observed in the analyzed data set.
11 min
The longest observed answer to a customer question. The customer had only asked if something was possible.
500+
Solution Engineers and sellers coached directly. The behavioral patterns here are drawn from all of them.

Every company has a
"Book a Demo"
button.

Almost every software company invests heavily in marketing, outbound sales, events, and partnerships to generate demo requests. Then the prospect books the demo. And almost nothing changes.

Most teams spend surprisingly little time improving what actually happens in that meeting. The demo is inherited from a more experienced colleague, who inherited it from theirs. The same patterns get passed down for years without anyone questioning whether they still work.

The good news is that small improvements in demo performance can have a disproportionate impact on revenue. If you qualify better, engage more effectively, and move opportunities forward with more clarity, you do not need more leads. You simply convert more of what you already have.

This report is based on demo reviews, coaching sessions, workshops, and transcript analysis gathered through RoastMyDemo and direct work with more than 500 Solution Engineers and sellers. It is a practical view from the field, not a statistically perfect study. The last widely referenced demo research was published by Gong back in 2017. Nine years ago. A lot has changed.

10 Findings

What the data shows

01
Finding #1
Context beats product knowledge

The strongest predictor of a successful demo was not product expertise, feature depth, or presentation skill. It was the ability to connect the demo back to the customer's reality.

Top-performing presenters consistently used what I call Context Bridges: short phrases that reference what the customer said earlier and tie it directly to what is being shown next. And they followed each one with a Value Bridge: an explicit statement of why it matters to this specific buyer.

Context Bridges
"Earlier, you mentioned..."
"You shared that..."
"Based on what you described..."
"If I understood correctly..."
"Going back to your point about..."
Value Bridges
"For your team, this means..."
"The impact for you is..."
"What changes operationally is..."
"This gives you the ability to..."
"Here is why that matters for you..."

Together, they answer the two questions every buyer is silently asking throughout the entire demo: Why should I care about this? And: What is in it for me?

Without these connections, the customer has to do the translation themselves. They have to figure out why a feature is being shown, whether it applies to them, and what value it might create. That is a significant burden to place on an audience that is already distracted.

1.7×
Context Bridges appeared on average per demo, meaning most demos contained almost no reference to what was learned during discovery. Customers were watching a generic product tour.

The more frequently presenters connected features back to customer statements, the higher the demo score and the more active the conversation became. If there is one habit that consistently improved demo performance more than any other, this is it.

"Your customer does not care how much you know, till they know how much you care."
Max · Presales Rockstars
02
Finding #2
Great demos create commercial progression

One of the clearest patterns across high-performing demos: they rarely ended with uncertainty. They ended with a clear next step. The best ones ended with what I call the next-next step.

Most teams think about the demo as the goal. It is not. The demo is a vehicle that gets you to the next decision. The more important question is: if the demo goes well, what should the customer be willing to do next?

The strongest teams answer that question before the demo even starts. They align with their champion in advance, so that a successful demo flows naturally into a follow-up meeting with the Head of Operations, a security review, or a technical validation. The next-next step is already agreed on before anyone has seen a single feature.

"Thanks for joining today. The goal of this session is to show how you could reduce employee onboarding from several hours of manual work to a few clicks. At the end, we will take ten minutes to answer your questions and determine whether what you have seen aligns with your expectations. If it does, as we discussed, the next step would be a meeting with your Head of Operations."
Example of a strong demo opening

This opening does three things. It tells the audience exactly why they are here. It gives the demo a defined endpoint. And it anchors the next step before anyone has seen a single feature. The demo now has direction.

The missing last ten minutes

In most demos, the closing discussion simply does not happen. The session runs long, participants drop off, and the meeting ends with "Any questions?" followed by "Great, we'll be in touch." No feedback is collected. No next step is set.

Reserving ten minutes at the end is not arbitrary. It signals that you planned ahead. And it gives you a natural bridge to the question that actually matters: "Based on what you have seen today, does anything speak against moving forward with the next step we discussed?"

If the answer is no, you schedule. If the answer is yes, you learn exactly what is blocking the deal, while everyone is still in the room.

93%
of analyzed demos were missing a structured closing, commercial progression discussion, or defined next-step ownership. Most ended with vague commitments like "we'll discuss internally."
03
Finding #3
The best demos feel like conversations

One of the biggest misconceptions about demos is that their primary purpose is to show the product. Customers want to see the product, but a demo is also a tool to create conversation, validate assumptions, and understand how buyers react to what they are seeing.

The strongest demos were not the ones where the presenter talked for 60 minutes straight. They were the ones where customers actively participated: reacting, comparing, questioning, sharing their own experiences.

Two failure modes

The Monologue. Some presenters simply talked too much. They explained, demonstrated, narrated. Then continued explaining. Customers became passive observers. The only visible reaction was occasional nodding. Not because they agreed. Because they had checked out.

Fake Engagement. The second group asked questions, but questions that generated almost no value. "Does that make sense?" "Any questions?" These create the appearance of interaction. Most customers answer "yes, sounds good." The presenter immediately continues talking. Nothing is learned.

Weak questions (avoid)
"Does that make sense?"
"Any questions so far?"
"Would this help your team?"
"Does this resonate?"
Strong questions (use)
"How does this compare to what you do today?"
"When was the last time this happened?"
"How are you currently solving this?"
"Where does the process break down?"

Strong questions focus on the customer's current reality, not a hypothetical future. Customers describe their process, their challenges, their experience. That information is far more valuable than "sounds good."

Question Insight Score
Insight generated by common demo questions, based on observed conversation depth.
"How is this different from what you do today?"
"Would this help your team?"
"Does this resonate?"
"Any questions so far?"
"Does that make sense?"
Confirmation questions generate validation.
Reality-based questions generate information.
Scores are based on observed conversation depth across hundreds of software demos.
04
Finding #4
Buying signals are almost always missed

Most presenters listen just long enough to identify a problem. The best presenters listen long enough to understand it. That difference often determines whether a demo becomes a feature presentation or a meaningful business conversation.

One of the most common patterns in the analyzed demos: the customer reveals valuable information. The presenter immediately starts showing a feature. The signal is acknowledged briefly, then the standard demo flow continues.

88%
of demos where customers shared relevant information about challenges, costs, or frustrations. The presenter moved on without exploring it further.
Buying signals are not always "I want to buy"

Many people expect buying signals to be obvious. "When can we start?" or "Can you send a proposal?" Those exist. But the most valuable buying signals appear much earlier, embedded in how customers describe their problems.

  • "This is very manual right now"
  • "It is quite complex"
  • "The process is slow and error-prone"
  • "Nobody has a complete overview"
  • "We have to do this in three different systems"

Words like manual, complex, slow, error-prone, repetitive signal operational friction. The goal is not to immediately show the solution. The goal is to understand how significant the problem actually is. A process that happens once a year is very different from one that happens daily. The only way to know is to keep listening.

Three techniques that work

Mirroring: Repeat the last important word. Customer says "it is incredibly complex." You say: "Complex?" Most customers will automatically continue explaining.

Labeling: Acknowledge the emotion. "That sounds frustrating." Customers feel heard and tend to share more.

Paraphrasing: Summarize what you heard. "So the challenge is not finding the information. It is that the information is spread across three different systems?" This confirms understanding and often uncovers additional detail.

"If everything is important, nothing is."
Max · Presales Rockstars
05
Finding #5
Attention is your most limited resource

One of the biggest challenges in modern demos has very little to do with your product. It has everything to do with attention.

Customer attention starts declining the moment a demo begins. People remember the beginning and the end. Everything in the middle is much harder to retain. The U-shaped attention curve below shows what this looks like in practice.

The data makes this especially damaging: average demos take 12 minutes before any product content is shown. Poor demos take 21 minutes. By that point, the opening attention window, the highest-recall moment in any meeting, is already gone. Top-performing demos get to product value within 3 minutes.

The U-Shaped Attention Curve
Attention High Low Start Middle End TOP · 3 min AVG · 12 min POOR · 21 min Opening highest recall Middle lowest recall Closing high recall

Your most important message needs to land in the first ten minutes, not after the company overview, not after the architecture slide. If your customer remembers only one thing from your demo, what should it be? Whatever that answer is, lead with it.

The corporate overview problem

One of the fastest ways to lose attention is to make the beginning of the demo about yourself. Yet many demos still open with ten, fifteen, or even twenty minutes about the company: who you are, where you operate, how many customers you have, how many awards you have won.

This information is not wrong. The problem is that customers rarely care about it at the start. At that point, they are trying to answer one simpler question: Can these people help me solve my problem?

Send the company overview as a PDF in the calendar invite. Save it for the end if someone asks. Do not spend the most valuable minutes of your demo talking about yourself.

A simple attention reset

One effective technique: stop sharing your screen. After demonstrating a workflow, hide the product and return to full-screen camera. Ask your question. Have the discussion. Then go back to the product. When software is on screen, customers can remain passive. The moment it disappears, the conversation shifts back to them. After the first or second time, they start to expect it. They pay more attention throughout.

06
Finding #6
Language shapes how your product is perceived

The way you communicate during a demo has a direct impact on how your product is perceived. When presenters sound clear, confident, and decisive, customers tend to perceive the solution the same way. When presenters sound uncertain or apologetic, some of that uncertainty transfers to the product itself.

Hedging language creates doubt

Hedging words soften or distance the speaker from their own statement. On their own they seem harmless. Over the course of a 60-minute demo, dozens of small language choices accumulate and influence how customers perceive both you and your product.

Hedging language (avoid)
"Hopefully this will help reduce manual effort."
"I think this should work for your use case."
"This might be a bit difficult to follow."
"This next part is kind of complex."
Confident language (use)
"This automates the approval process entirely."
"Based on what you shared, this is exactly what this was built for."
"Let me break this into three simple steps."
"Once you see the workflow, it is very straightforward."
Hedging Language Distribution — Observed Across Demos
I think 22%
it depends 20%
probably 15%
maybe 12%
hopefully 10%
potentially 8%
I believe 5%
should be able to 4%
might be able to 2%
I guess 2%

Strong communication does not require exaggeration or hype. It requires clarity. Say what something does. Explain why it matters. Move on.

07
Finding #7
Filler words create noise

Most presenters are aware of some of their habits. The problem is that many habits happen completely below conscious awareness. Filler words are a perfect example: they feel invisible to the speaker and are very visible to the buyer.

Across the analyzed demos, certain words appeared again and again: kind of, sort of, just, basically, actually, literally. On their own they seem insignificant. The problem is what happens when they appear dozens of times throughout a demo.

"This kind of helps automate the workflow." vs. "This automates the workflow."

"This is sort of where managers can see the status." vs. "This is where managers see the status."

"You can just create a report here." vs. "You create a report here."
Each pair says the same thing. The second version is shorter, clearer, and more confident.
Filler Word Distribution — Observed Across Demos
kind of 35%
just 22%
sort of 15%
basically 10%
actually 7%
literally 4%
really 3%
essen­tially 2%
1%
1%
119
The record number of "kind of" uses in a single demo. Combined with "sort of" and "just," many demos exceed 100 filler words in one hour, roughly one every 30 seconds.

Every unnecessary word increases cognitive load. The more you talk, the more your customer has to process. The more unnecessary words you use, the harder it becomes for customers to identify the information that actually matters.

The fix is awareness first. Most presenters are surprised when they see their own transcripts. Once you notice the pattern, it is usually one of the easiest habits to improve.

"There is no solution without a problem."
Max · Presales Rockstars
08
Finding #8
Stop explaining the solution before establishing the problem

One of the most common habits among Solution Engineers is jumping straight to the solution. This happens because SEs genuinely want to help. The moment they recognize a problem, they immediately start thinking about the answer. The workflow. The feature. The integration.

The problem is that customers rarely buy solutions simply because they exist. They buy solutions because they have a problem worth solving. If the problem is not clearly established first, the solution loses much of its impact. A solution without context is just functionality.

If you had no discovery, come prepared with hypotheses

If you had a proper discovery call, use what you learned. Reference it with Context Bridges before every workflow you show. If you did not, come prepared with hypotheses based on what you know about companies like theirs.

"Companies in your space often struggle with one of three things: lack of visibility across teams, too much manual effort in approvals, or slow onboarding. Which of these is most relevant for you right now?"
A hypothesis-led opening when discovery was limited

Now the customer can react. They prioritize. They tell you where you are right and where you are wrong. Most importantly, they help establish the problem before you start presenting solutions. The demo now has a foundation.

Once several challenges are identified, ask the customer to rank them. What is most urgent? What can wait? Spend most of your time on the problems that matter most. The result is a more relevant and more memorable demo.

09
Finding #9
Stop asking customers about an imaginary future

One of the most common question patterns in software demos is also one of the least useful. Questions like "Would you use this?", "Could you see yourself using this?", or "Can you envision this helping your process?" ask customers to speculate about a future that does not exist yet. And speculative answers are surprisingly unreliable.

When you ask customers to imagine a future scenario, most people naturally give polite and optimistic answers. They are in a demo. They have invested time. They want the conversation to feel productive. So you get: "Yeah, I could see that." "That would probably be useful." "I think our team would like that." You have learned almost nothing.

A simple rule

Whenever you catch yourself about to ask a question starting with "Would...", "Could...", "Might...", or "If..." pause and ask yourself: Can I turn this into a question about their current reality? Most of the time, the answer is yes.

Hypothetical (avoid)
"Would this help your team?"
"Could you see yourself using this?"
"Would this save you time?"
"Can you imagine the benefit here?"
Reality-based (use)
"How are you solving this today?"
"When was the last time this happened?"
"Where do you currently lose the most time?"
"How long does this take your team right now?"

One of the hidden dangers of hypothetical questions is that they make demos feel more successful than they are. Customers answer positively. Presenters hear positive feedback. Everyone leaves feeling good. But positive sentiment is not qualification. Many demos end with "Looks interesting, we'll be in touch." Not because the customer was dishonest, but because nobody ever explored whether the problem was important enough to justify change.

10
Finding #10
Not every question needs a product answer

One of the most common patterns in demos is that customer questions are answered too quickly, and almost always with the product. A customer asks "Can we configure this?" The presenter immediately starts clicking. They do not just answer whether it is possible. They demonstrate the entire setup process.

This feels helpful in the moment. But not every question is a "how" question. Sometimes the customer only wants to know if something is possible. Sometimes they are testing fit. Sometimes they are hinting at a deeper concern. If every question immediately turns into a live product tour, the demo loses focus for everyone else in the room.

11 min
The longest observed answer to a customer question. The customer had asked whether something was possible. The presenter answered by clicking through the entire setup process, a level of depth that did not match the question.
A better response pattern
  • Answer briefly. "Yes, that is fully configurable."
  • Clarify intent. "Are you asking because you have a specific workflow in mind?"
  • Decide on depth. "I can give you the high-level concept now and show the detailed setup later if needed."
  • Connect back to the goal. "Since our focus today is the broader onboarding workflow, I will keep this high-level for now."

This keeps you in control of the demo, gives the customer a clear answer, and prevents one question from turning into a ten-minute detour.

Speed of response is not always a sign of expertise. For important questions, a deliberate pause actually increases credibility. It signals that the answer is tailored to this customer's context, not just the first thing that came to mind.

Max, Presales Rockstars
About the Author
Max

Founder of Presales Rockstars and creator of RoastMyDemo. I have spent years coaching Solution Engineers and sellers to improve how they demonstrate software. This report is built from direct field experience: watching demos, reviewing transcripts, and identifying the patterns that separate the ones that move deals forward from the ones that do not. Better demos, bigger deals.

How this was measured

This report is based on a behavior-driven analysis framework developed from hundreds of demo reviews, coaching sessions, workshop observations, and transcript analyses gathered through RoastMyDemo.

Rather than evaluating presentation style, charisma, or product knowledge, the framework focuses on observable behaviors that consistently influence customer engagement, perceived value, and commercial outcomes.

Behaviors were measured quantitatively where possible: counting Context Bridges, Value Bridges, filler words, engagement questions, buying signals captured or missed, and commercial progression moments. This separates isolated moments from recurring habits.

Context Bridges
How often presenters connected what they showed to something the customer had previously said
Value Bridges
How often presenters explicitly explained why a feature mattered, not just what it does
Customer Engagement
Customer talk time, quality of discussion, participation moments, and quality of questions asked
Active Listening
Whether customer statements were explored further or briefly acknowledged and ignored
Communication Patterns
Filler words, hedging language, confidence language, and clarity of explanation
Commercial Progression
Next-step discussions, feedback collection, objection visibility, commitment creation

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